Barf Scarf

 

Click to watch the infamous Familiy Guy barfing scene. I cry tears watching this. 

Grace has weeks where she throws up multiple times in the day and night. It’s a mystery. She’s happy, chatty, no fever, not sick and then -BLEEEEEEH!!!!- it’s, like, EEEEEEEEverywhere. The other day, she threw up in the car on a roadtrip and we had no choice but to drive the next hour until we could get to our friend’s house and bathe her. She continued to vomit and, poor boys, her brothers were utterly mortified. Jack got sprayed a bit and now, he will only sit in the front seat when she’s in the car. Can’t blame him.

The past few nights, she’s vomitted multiple times in her sleep. Sometimes we catch it, other times, she doesn’t make a peep and we just discover it in the morning.

It all sounds quite horrific, but she’s still laughing, smiling and happy. And that’s the measuring stick I use when deciding if I’m gonna freak out or not.

Grace in her barf scarf

Why does she have these periods of puke? I just think she just gets reflux once in a while. We have a family history of dairy intollerance. I’m mostly dairy free and I have the odd cheese here and there, but every so often, my body reminds me why I should be completely dairy free because I get horrible pains in my stomach, reflux, bloating…the works. Grace’s diet is heavy on dairy because it makes things creamy and edible and provides easy calories. When she has a tube feed, that’s dairy as well.

Also, in the winter she gets a bit bunged up with phlegm and doesn’t have the physical ability to do anything with it. So she coughs –> gags –> vomits. And this is how she clears her chest. It’s not even vomit – just congestion.

But vomitting in itself isn’t what this post is about. I want to tell you a few tips for handling a lifestyle of vomit.

Layers. When Grace is having a puky week, I dress her in layers that can simply be stripped off in the event of a pukisode. I have to catch it fast, though, or it permeates the layers.

Catch it. Literally, I catch vomit. I keep her near me when she’s likely to vomit and as soon as she coughs, I bowl a towel under her chin and catch. Makes for quite an exciting challenge. They should add it to those crazy asian gameshows. Eat a cockroach, catch some vomit.

Barf scarf. It’s a heckuva lot easier to wash a scarf than clothes. So I wrap Grace in a scarf on a barfy day. This also protects her harness on her wheelchair which is pretty hard to go without while it sits on the radiator drying. Just whip the scarf off and throw it in the wash.

Gaviscon. I give her child Gaviscon in her PEG tube when she’s having a rough week.

Bedtime. At night, I cover her pillow in a fleece blanket (things don’t soak through fleece as easily) and lay a blanket over her sheet. I keep her hair up. This doesn’t really make it too much easier. We still have to bathe her in the night or morning, but at least we don’t have to wash her pillows or completely strip the bed. And she smells good after her multiple baths!

Upright. She’s pretty much always upright, anyway. But she has a hospital bed so we prop her up a bit to sleep.

Laugh. If you don’t laugh, you cry. Apart from the moment she’s actually chucking it up, it doesn’t really bother Grace. The sight of Grace with a puke beard, laughing at me freaking out is all it takes to make me lighten up. If she’s not bothered, then I’m not bothered. She gets extra baths, the laundry gets done and I get to curse at Rett Syndrome a few extra times that day.

Do you have tips for dealing with your child’s vomit? Post them in the comments!

My sister with Rett Syndrome {by Elijah, age 9}

This post is by Grace’s brother, Elijah, age 9

My sister is Grace, she is very famous.

It is really a bummer that my sister has Rett Syndrome, because she can’t walk,talk properly and move her body the way she wants to.

The only thing that bothers me is that she pukes because she can’t eat properly *blech*! But she can be funny sometimes, such as if I am hurt or sad grace laughs right in my face, that cheers me up for a very long time. Grace is always funny, even when she scratches my face with her sharp fingernails.

But when she is sad…no stoping her now! WAAAAAAA!

My sister is four, her favorite movie is Finding Nemo she loves, and I mean LOVES John Lasseter’s movies, Grace adores disney CGIs.

Grace means everything to me, even when she is annoyingly screaming and crying in my ear, no offense Grace! She is my everything!

 

People with Rett Syndrome Understand

If you do just one important thing today, watch this video. The idea that just because you can’t speak, you don’t understand is such a travesty in the world of girls and women with Rett Syndrome. They are underestimated. Some are treated like babies for the whole of their lives. This is a very old fashioned idea. These girls are simply locked-in. Please watch this video.
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Rett Syndrome and Breathing Abnormalities

Note: I will be referencing The Rett Syndrome Handbook in this post. I highly recommend every Rett family to have this book in their home. It’s a whopping 500+ pages long, written by the amazing Kathy Hunter, founder of IRSF which has now put $40,000,000 into research to cure/treat Rett syndrome. This book has been really valuable when doctors claim that such-and-such isn’t related to Rett and I can pull out this bible of Rett and resolve the issue. If you want a hard-copy, purchase it by emailing admin@rettsyndrome.org. I’ll just be referring to it as “the handbook” in this post.

“Just breathe, Baby!” I must say it to Grace every day. And when I do, I think ‘why am I saying this? If she could, she would!’

Breathing problems are one of the mysteries of Rett syndrome. But understanding more about it can help you get a grip when the going’s tough.

Breathing difficulties in Rett come in these categories (descriptions taken from the handbook):

Shallow breathing – Most girls with RS have shallow breathing. The lack of deep breathing often puts the bottom of the lungs at high risk for collapse. This is one reason why some girls catch colds very easily and often develop pneumonia. Shallow breathing can be a hinderance during surgery and can lead to fever during recovery.

Hyperventilation – The most striking breathing pattern often noticed by parents are periods of overbreathing with fast, deep breath. Such hyperventilations are often inturrupted by cessation (stopping) of breathing, known as apnea. When your daughter breathes in this way, she may seem agitated with increased hand movements, dilated pupils, increased heart rate, rocking body movements and increased muscle tone. Deep breathing expels more carbon dioxide from the body than usual, so her hyperventilation causes her carbon dioxide levels to fall. Carbon dioxide is one of the body’s normal waste products carried in the blood. Its purpose is to maintain acid/alkali balance so that cells can function normally. When levels are low, you cannot function normally. Hyperventilation may cause your daughter to feel dizzy and her fingers to tingle.

Breath holding – Oxygen saturation in the blood, normally 97% and higher, can be greatly reduced by breath holding. Sometimes as low as 50%, this may cause her to feel faint.

Air swallowing – Air swallowing is called aerophagia. Most people swallow small amounts of air routinely when they are under stress or eat rapidly, swallow unchewed food or chew gum. Swallowing air during discomfort such as heartburn may bring relief. For most people, this isn’t a problem but many girls with RS swallow excessive amounts of air during breath holding which results in abdominal distention. Which means their tummies become very bloated and hard. Air swallowing can be difficult to detect. Here are some signs and symptoms associated with air swallowing:

  • audible swallowing any time, including sleep
  • severe dysfunction of swallowing, with air swallowing apparent while eating or drinking
  • abdominal distention, usually following feedings or episodes of hyperventilation and breath holding
  • frequent burping (may be beneficial)
  • large amounts of gas passed through the rectum

Apnea – Apnea occurs when she lets a breath out and fails to take another. Not to be confused with breath holding. This often occurs in girls with RS when they are awake. It usually doesn’t cause serious problems. When she isn’t breathing, her oxygen levels fall. Her lips may turn blue and she may lose consciousness briefly. This is dangerous when oxygen levels fall low enough to a level known as anoxia. This is typically not seen in Rett.

The handbook says this about breathing problems:

“Breathing irregularities may be pronounced, or in some cases so subtle that they are not even noticed by parents.  Breathing is usually abnormal during wakefulness and tends to be normal during sleep. However, because the girls are often awake at night, the breath holding episodes may be mistaken for sleep apnea. Breathing becomes more irregular under emotional or physical stress.”

The handbook says of the cause:

“It appears these abnormalities result from poor coordination of voluntary control of breathing with the respiratory center of the brain stem.”

So you can see why I swear by this handbook! Now, it’s not difficult to imagine what your daughter feels like when she has these problems because you can mimic them yourself. For instance, force yourself to hyperventilate for 10-20 seconds. Once you pick yourself up off the floor, come finish reading. It’s crazy, right? I do it once in a while just to remind myself how Grace is feeling and I can tell you this: it’s dizzying and really distressing. Can you imagine your body forcing you to do it against your own will?

This is how I think of these breathing problems: it isn’t Grace doing it. It’s her body doing it to her.

I don’t think it feels like she’s holding her breath. I imagine it feels like someone has their hand over her mouth. She doesn’t get to choose to start breathing again. She’s gotta take it until her brain gets back on track.

Breathing problems are often misdiagnosed as other things. For instance, the handbook has this to say about seizures:

“Abnormal breathing episodes can resemble epileptic seizures, but they are not. Sometimes, what is thought to be a seizure is not, and some seizures may fail to be recognized when she is asleep or even awake. Vacant spells are brief interruptions of awareness that may resemble seizures but are not.”

Before a week-long video telemetry study which confirmed seizures, I wondered if what had been diagnosed as seizures in Grace was actually just the behavior you’d expect if someone was stopping her from breathing. I mean, how would you feel if your brain had its hand over your mouth?

Please share what you know about Rett and breathing in the comments below!

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